Turning the Church Inside Out.


 

Clip of a lady healed at a recent outreach.

I wrote this article a few years ago and have had it reprinted in several blogs etc. It's still true.


Many years ago I went to my favorite restaurant, the Screaming Coyote, to purchase a Forklift burrito, the biggest ever made, to bring home to share with my wife. 

While waiting I noticed a young mother with her child. The mother was dressed in typical alternative dress, appropriately ripped jeans, T-shirt and Doc Martin sandals. She was wearing more than one earring and looked like the typical young mom. 

While she was digging in to her purse to find the correct change to purchase her food, her baby sat in his stroller and stared into space. He did not look well. I then noticed a tube running to his nose. 

I thought, ‘I need to pray for the child.’ It was a crowded night so I waited for my order and observed that the mother had moved to the sidewalk tables. I paid for my burrito and nachos and strolled outside. I introduced myself and asked the mom about her child mentioning that I had noticed the tube. She explained that the baby had been born premature and had some major health problems since the birth and that the tube was a feeding tube. 

Interestingly she also informed me she had named the child a biblical name, Michael. At some point in the conversation I asked if I could pray for her and the baby. Unsurprisingly she affirmed by saying something like, ‘That would be nice. Thank you very much’. 

Before I prayed I asked permission to place my hand on the child’s head and then prayed a please give health to baby and grant wisdom and strength to mom type of prayer. I did notice the mother had tears rolling down her face. At the end of the prayer, I said, ‘Thanks for letting me pray.’ 

She responded tearfully by saying, ‘No, thank you for praying.’ Her next response ripped my heart she said, ‘I didn’t think anybody cared.’ 

Stunned, I affirmed God’s care and love for her and her child and told her about a great outward focused church where I knew she could find acceptance. The only problem it was miles away. 

As I walked away I pondered the situation. I was living in Pensacola, host of a revival that had been going on for over two years, and here was a person who never knew somebody cared for her life. I was stunned. I asked my self, 'What is revival?' I thought it meant communities being reached and changed. People empowered to reach their world. 

“What is revival?” I thought it meant communities 
being reached and changed. People empowered to reach their world. 

I thought about Jesus and the many times compassion moved Him to action. He was graceful and caring toward the people who needed health and healing. I then thought, ‘When will the church ever be a go church instead of a come to church? When will the church ever become outward focused instead of inward focused?’ Something happened in my life that day I can never explain. I did know I wanted to be part of a church that cared and welcomed people where an alternative young mother and child could find refuge.

Not long after this event I moved to Cincinnati Ohio and became a part of Vineyard Community Church one of the largest outward focused churches in the USA. Thousands of people each week are touched with God’s love through varied expressions of Servant Evangelism. Hundreds of people are then welcomed by the staff, an army of fantastic volunteers, and pastors. People are allowed to come as they are and hang out. They are also patiently encouraged to discover Jesus and become a part of The Vineyard. The love and care presented to thousands out in the community each week through their serving is duplicated by the atmosphere they seek to create in their gatherings on weekends.

What makes Vineyard Community Church a part of a growing group of people across the world who are attempting to be outward focused? I believe they discovered their purpose for their existence. In a nutshell, Vineyard Community Church exists to love the people of Cincinnati into a relationship with Jesus Christ. That means it is a go church.
 
We exist to love the people of our world into a relationship with Jesus Christ.

I’ve moved on from Cincy to The Dayton Vineyard, eleven years have passed. Cincy Vineyard continues to grow. I’ve learned much since moving to Dayton. At the present we are revisiting pressing into God’s presence and power. At the same time we continue to be outward focused reaching out to our community.

Why does the church Exist?
 
The Church is God’s great idea. It is a place where people can discover a new life living a new way. The people of the early church were  'the called out ones',  'disciples', and followers of the 'Way'. In the early church there was an atmosphere which included a sense of awe, togetherness, unselfishness, unity, power, community and a strong sense of God's presence and mission. The resulting fruit?… 'The Lord added to the church day by day those being saved…and the church found favor with all the people.'
 
Our mission and focus is all important. It defines why we exist and why we are here.
Emil Bruner in his book God’s Forgetful Pilgrims, Recalling the Church To Its Reason For Being states,’The Church exists by mission as fire exists by burning.  

Terry Virgo, leader of New Frontiers Ministry in the U.K. once said, ‘When we lose sight of the great commission we lose sight of our great prophetic purpose in life.’  Both statements are extremely important. When any church focuses upon any thing less than the Great Commission as it’s primary mission for existence, that church will eventually lose it’s purposeful sense, of mission. That church will quickly forget why it is blessed in the first place. I call it the Big Why?

Many people need to recover their sense of mission.

Many people need to recover their sense of mission.

The  truth: God wants to get the attention of His church. His purpose… that the church might seek Him and find Him, and discover His passion for our dismembered world.

It is interesting to view church movements from a distance. While some seek Him for personal prosperity and personal blessing, others seek Him for the lost. They are mission, / value driven. Some of the fastest growing churches in the USA are in this category. 


Believe it or not, they are criticized for their passion for the lost. 'Those seeker churches, They are a mile wide and an inch deep.' Sadly, this criticism sometimes comes from our 'more spiritual' brothers who are criticized by the 'less aware brothers' who are criticized by... ok I'll stop. Truth.

The reality, many churches in the different streams are doing all they can to reach everyone they can. They are focused upon knowing God (His relationship / His presence) and making Him known (His mission / His power). Everything else follows.  

As one man stated, “We cannot continue to be an inward focused church and expect non-believers to want to be a part of it. They won’t. They don’t want our religion. They want to experience the reality of life changing answers for life’s problems, and to experience the God of that reality.”

As one great leader has stated, “We need to re-present Jesus to our world.” How, by first of all pressing in to know Him, then reach out to our world to reveal Him in life, action, attitude and word.

It really does matter where you focus your aim. 
It will set the course of your life.

The questions…What drives your church? What is it’s purpose in life? What is it’s mission? Does your church have a sense of mission? Or is it a church a drift?
 

Sometimes getting back to our foundations defines our business. As Christians and church leaders we need to continually ask ourselves, what business are we in? How is business?  Sometimes it is facing the hard questions. We need to discover our present reality on order to move forward. 

One year during a losing season Greenbay Packers coach Vince Lombardy gathered the team together and said, “Gentlemen, this is a football.” This is getting back to basics. I think our great Coach would like to gather His team together, point to our world and say, ‘Church this is your mission.’ It really does matter where you focus your aim. It will set the course of your life.

Where are you aiming? Inward or outward? What is your purpose? Why do you exist? May I suggest that answering these questions will help you discover what really matters to you and to your church.  

Fill in the blanks: Our church exists to _____________________ ________________. 

We are a church that ______________________________.  

Our purpose in this town, city is to ___________________________. 

Our main focus is to ______________________________________. 

Our main mission is to ________________________________.

May I also suggest that if you answer doesn’t include pressing into God’s Presence, or  going out into the Great Commission you are falling far short of your destiny. 

Secondly, check and see if your practice equals what you believe / value. Christians often define themselves by what they believe, our communities define us by what we do.

The Desire For All Nations by an All Nations God

God has always been an all nations God. From beginning to end He desires to be in relationship with every person from every tribe, people, tongue and nation. This is God’s ideal for the inhabitants of planet earth. His desire was expressed when he commanded Adam and Eve to multiply and fill the earth. His Father heart was revealed when He asked  the questions, “Where are you? Why are you hiding?” He's still asking those questions to the people of our world today.

 His desire for all nations was also revealed when he encouraged Abraham telling him his seed was to be as the sands of the sea and as the stars in the universe. 

He is a who-so-ever God for a who-so-ever will believe people. 

His passion for all peoples continued in the New Testament by coming in the fashion of His redeeming Son, expressed in John 3:16 NIV 

For God so loved the world
that he gave his one and only Son, 
that whoever believes in him
shall not perish but have eternal life. 

He is a who-so-ever God, for a who-so-ever will believe people. 

Jesus revealed His Fathers passion when he upset the religious leaders of his day. The court of the gentiles had become a robbers den. Their buying and selling under the guise of religious ceremony prevented all nations from coming to worship at His House. His passion overflowed as He literally drove the money-changers from the area with a whip over turning their tables as he went. 

The Apostle Peter revealed the heart of God when he expressed, 'He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but (wanting) everyone to come to repentance.' (2 Peter 3:9 NIV) 

Lastly, a new song will be written to celebrate God’s passion of the who-so-ever believers at the conclusion of time and at the beginning of eternity …  And they sang a new song: "You are worthy to take the scroll and to open its seals, because you were slain, and with your blood you purchased men for God from every tribe and language and people and nation. You have made them to be a kingdom and priests to serve our God, and they will reign on the earth. (Rev 5:9-10 NIV) 

He is an outward focused, all nations, all peoples God, looking and longing to have relationship with all who will call upon Him. Always has been… always will be.

When the Church, which is supposed to be connected to His eternal purpose, loses sight of God’s main plan for man, we often move our focus on minors rather than on majors. 

Why do we exist? We exist to know God(relationship / His presence) and to make Him known(His mission / His power) We are His plan for man. We are it. No other plan. It is His unchanging purpose from eternity.


 


What's Evangelism?

Creating God Space

What’s evangelism?
Much has been written, been theorized about, and probably more talked about then actually done.


Evangelism at it's core is being a friendly open-hearted person, and gently stepping into another persons space.

A few years ago, I spoke to a group of teens…I began by telling a story about a friend of mine who has been coming to our food pantry for breakfast and groceries. He was waiting in line and we began to have a conversation…

As the conversation continued he told me about his wife who was a gambler. In 1997 she blew through $18,000 in savings, began to use drugs and left him with two young boys. Devastated, he went to the place where he thought he could find some encouragement and support… his church. He told the pastor his story, how he was left with two boys under 3 and needed some help.

The pastor told him, “We can’t help you now, but to come back in a month or so.” He wasn't looking for financial support just someone to help him walk through his crisis.

His comment to me, “I desperately needed support and help, not in a month but in the moment.” He left that day vowing, “I’ll never enter another church again.” 

He then spoke of his struggle to work, feed, and care for his boys. During the summer he used a neighborhood common garden to grow vegetables. He ate the fresh veggies in the summer and canned the rest for winter. He worked hard, supported his kids, had the usual growing pains of boys becoming teenagers and developing into young men.

After, he spoke I paused, then asked him to forgive me, representing the church as a leader. I then asked if we could pray. During the prayer, I asked God for forgiveness, and asked for grace to be to be given to his family, to bless them and for favor to rest upon them. He shook my hand and said, “Thanks, Steve.”

I then told the teens he’s now a personal friend, and about our continued relationship.

I mentioned that evangelism at it's core is simply being a friendly open-hearted person and gently stepping into another persons space.

Once stepping into a person’s relational space we are creating God space, where God things happen.

To illustrate I shared another story.

Crosby, Stills and Nash came to the outdoor Fraze Pavilion for a show. My wife, and a few friends headed up to have a picnic outside the pavilion and to listen to the music. It was a great night. Good food, drinking coke, singing with the crowd and enjoying our friends. Interesting people, dogs, and kids walk by our smorgasbord. People often comment on the spread of some pretty amazing food. “Man that’s what we should do.”

At one point a father with a small baby girl walked by. I noticed an attached tube to help the child receive meds, or food. The father evidently was besotted with his little girl. At one point he introduced the child to another baby.  They made faces at each other eye to eye, laughed and giggled…the connection baby to baby was amazing.

A little while later the mom walked toward us carrying the child. I mentioned to a friend, “I think we need to pray for them.” When the duo came by I asked the mom, “What’s the baby’s name.” The mom replied, “Abigail.” I laughed and said, “Our third child was supposed to be an Abigail, but she ended up being a Nathan. I have a blonde, brunette and Nathan has red hair.” The mom replied, “Oh, Abigail has red hair.”

 I then asked what was wrong with Abigail. She told the story of the birth, things not right with Abby’s stomach, and how she was improving but still had a long way to go. I then mentioned I and my friend were pastors of the Vineyard and asked if we could pray for Abby. She replied, “That would be great.” We prayed general, to specific prayers for the baby and prayed for the mom. I noticed that she was obviously touched.

It was ‘a God space moment’ Crosby, Stills and Nash were presenting a great show for the crowd, we were presenting a child in great need, to a great God. At the end of the prayer we thanked the mom for allowing us to pray with her.

Again, intentionally stepping into a person’s relational space is where God space is created. God space is where faith begins to grow.

I told the teens. “That in a nutshell… is evangelism.”

People are either moving toward Jesus, or away from him, or are on pause. Our job is to seek to enter into a person’s life space with care and concern. We then can help people who have turned away from Jesus to turn toward Him, or to nudge those who are moving toward Him closer, and to help those who are thinking to move forward.

Reaching out to others is not really that complicated.
      It just requires seeing eyes, hearing ears,
                and a willingness to create space where faith can begin to dwell.

That’s why I enjoy serving others. Serving others creates God space.

Giving Gatorade to skaters at the skate park on a hot day, or offering sun screen to people at a beach, or cold water at the Dayton Air Show, or serving breakfast at our food pantry helps create God space where His life can be shared.

 I’ve discovered that God is very interested in the people within my sphere of influence. Once I’ve discovered and entered into a God moment He tends to show up.

In His presence, there is life. We call it serving our way into the heart… Breaking down barriers, building bridges. Creating God space.

Jesus Gives Us Access.

I've been thinking about Easter. Also, I've been pressing into personal worship for a few years. Often I'll head into the Big Room, grab my guitar and worship. Just me, no one looking, no one listening except One. It's been interesting. Sometimes I'm afraid to open my eyes, other times new songs bubble up, and sometimes nothing, just the discipline of leaning in. Many times my prayers, crying out, my heart exposed is given in song. Sometimes I just play softly saying nothing. Once, when my notes and songs seemed to bounce of the floor, I asked, "Are you bored? Same notes, same songs, and my playing is so limited?" I didn't get an answer, but I've continued to venture in, seek His presence, and ask for His power.

One phrase I've found myself repeatedly saying, "Jesus we need you as you really are. Jesus, be who you really are to us in this place. Walk among us." Interesting phrase, Jesus be who you really are to us in this place. Walk among us.

Who is He?
He is salvation.
He is redemption.
He is healing.
He is provision.
He is forgiving.
He is protection.
He is wisdom.
He is comfort.
He is power. 
He is holder together of all things.
He is who He is, and so much more.
He is Jesus King of Kings and Lord of Lords.

He has eyes of fire, yet there is kindness in His eyes.
His voice sounds like many waters, yet He often speaks most powerfully in a whisper.
His Spirit is like a flowing river, yet often touches our lives like the early morning dew or a soft spring rain.
When He walks among us He sees, and hears all things.
He is Holy, yet He invites us into His presence.

One thing I do know, I want Him to be who He really is in my life and in my family and in my church. He is the One who gives us access to the Father's love, presence and power.

Below is what I wrote this week for the e'news of The Dayton Vineyard.

For God loved the world so much that he gave
his one and only Son,
so that everyone who believes in him
will not perish but have eternal life." (John 3:16)

The Father demonstrated His love for His world by giving His one and only Son.

The Son so loved His Father's will and His creation that He willingly gave his life.

The purpose: So that everyone who believes in Him would have eternal life / everlasting life.

This is amazing love! A love that gave His very best, and a love that willingly sacrificed His life for others.

“I tell you the truth, anyone who believes has eternal life." Jesus. (John 6:47)

At the moment we believe, we receive everlasting life. The life we now live is an everlasting life that deepens as we experience the love and the knowledge of the Father through the Son experienced by the agency of the Holy Spirit. (I know run on sentence but couldn't say it in another way.)

"This is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent." (John 17:3)
 
R.C. Sproul expresses the thought this way:
"The moment Jesus died, the instant the just one died for the unjust, the veil in the temple was torn. The presence of God became accessible to us. We now have access to His grace (*which brings peace) but even more we have access to Him. (*His presence) Now we can feel welcome in the very presence of a Holy God."
The Holiness of God, R.C. Sproul
*my note

This is the good news Jesus brings... we have access.

His sacrifice for our sins brings us peace.
His resurrection to life ensures our confident access into the presence of our loving Father.

To fear and yet to be unafraid is an interesting experience.

R. C. Sproul sums it up:
"But when we come, we must remember two things: (1) who He is; and (2) who we are. For the Christian the holy war is over; the peace has been established. Access to the Father is ours. But we still must tremble before our God. He is still holy."
The Holiness of God, R.C. Sproul

This Easter I'd invite you to be thankful for His peace, and to press into His presence as you worship Him who is worthy.


Easter Egg Hunt 2013


Seems hard to believe we've arrived at 10 years throwing a Giant Easter Egg Hunt for our community in Kettering OH. Each year we are amazed that so many people from the Vineyard sign up to serve, and we are always surprised by how many families from the community show up. We are also amazed how fast 15,000 eggs are picked up... Usually 80 or so seconds!

Last year we had a blast. Two huge fields, free face painting, kidz zone, free hot dogs, prizes, clowns and characters. 

One Grand-mom was sitting next to our free hotdog line and asked me, 'Who are you people? I've been sitting here for the last half an hour. I've seen the people serving, smiling, laughing. All have good attitudes. They don't complain even when they are asked to do difficult tasks like picking up half eaten hotdogs and paper. The atmosphere is wonderful. Are you the Kettering City Parks people? My answer, 'No we are the Dayton Vineyard a church in you area that loves to serve the community.' It was interesting to see her smile and continue to comment more positively. 
  
To sign up to serve contact edossa@daytonvineyard.com or sign up on line here.
 
Serving our community is part of what we do to love our city into a relationship with Jesus. 


Good deeds, creates good will, that opens hearts, to the good news.
 Rusaw and Swanson The Externally Focused Church.



















You've Just Been Kissed



How's it works... this year we are focusing on teachers. So we will be making their day on Valentines Day by delivering 100's  of special Valentine cupcakes to the schools. Teachers need appreciation and the outreach helps us build bridges and also meets a need in a practical way. 

We will be helping the less served by placing large white bags on the chairs in our services with a fill-the-bag list. We will then use the items that come in to care for those who come to our food pantry.

Here's how we've done the outreach in the past.

special connect card goes into each pack

tables are located at all exits, red table cloths and fun balloons create a fun vibe.

The two weekends just before Valentines day. Our teens and children’s areas pack thousands of Hershie Kisses into small zip lock bags with our special ‘you’ve just been kissed’ connect card. People grab several of the bags as they leave the weekend services and go about kissing the people Dayton during the week.

packed by our VKidz spreading the value of kindness

 Instruction sheet helps people know what to do

 A couple of years ago I went to the gym on one of my usual gym days. (My wife tells me it’s a good thing.)

When I arrived I asked the receptionist, ‘Have you been kissed today?’ She smiled and said, ‘Nope, not today.’ I then gave her a pack said, ‘Well you’ve just been kissed.’ She laughed and exclaimed, ‘You’re from the Vineyard right?’ I replied, ‘Yep. We are kissing people all over the city this week.’



Here's another example of what we've done:

On Valentines Day we head out to a couple of strip malls near the Vineyard. We take the packs of kisses, and several buckets of carnations. We pop into the businesses and head to the customer service desk and ask, ‘How many ladies are working today?’

We then count out the flowers and Hershey packs…and say, ‘We are from the Vineyard and you’ve just been kissed.’

Usually some of the other assistants are around and join in the exchange. Often, a male worker will ask for a carnation for his girlfriend or wife. Some guys say, ‘Thanks for the reminder.’


Most people are open, curious, laugh and catch the vibe.


One Vineyard group went to a high end Spa/Hair place, all of the working ladies gathered to receive their flower. ‘Who are you guys? Others exclaim, ‘This is so cool.’ Or sigh, ‘This will be my only present today.'Flowers and kisses were also handed out to the ladies who were becoming beautiful-er.


One of the team noticed one of the ladies getting her hair cut didn't receive a flower. So being the sensitive, thinking person she is, made an extra special effort to find another team grab a flower and run back to the shop...when she gave the lady the flower, the surprised and delighted lady exclaimed, 'You've just made my day! Thank you.'

Really? Made her day? Makes me wonder what one of her days looks like? Makes me wonder if she was ever loved, or had a caring boy friend, or had husband, or is now connected to an uncaring guy?


What's in a gift of a small flower and a pack of kisses?


I think serving others in a fun, creative way sends an upbeat message to the people in our stressed out world.Serving others often is a small action that sends a signal that says, ‘Hey, someone cares for you.’ The action preformed with genuine love somehow touches the heart.

My friend Scott, says, ‘Agape love revealed… means my love is demonstrated as I serve others through the choices I make, and by the actions I take.’ 

Process for Kiss Dayton:
4 weeks out: have connect cards printed (www.marketplaceprinting)

4 weeks out: order Hershey Kisses (snacc foods Cincinnati)

4 weeks out: order 4”X4” zip bags (BGR bags West Chester OH)

4 weeks out: order boxes of Carnations for pick up (Cleveland Plants and Flowers Dayton)

2 weeks out: have kids or teens pack the bags
Week of: have packs placed at all exits
Valentine Day Outreach
3 days out: pick up flowers, cut stems and place in buckets of water so they will be open on the day

3 days out: design maps with instructions and contact phone numbers

3 days out: make name tags
3 days out: gather Kiss packs and place in a larger bags for transport or containers

Day of Valentines Day Outreach
Gather at 10am

Give Instructions: go to shops, go to check out or customer service, ask, How many ladies are working today, count out Kisses packs and flowers give to workers, Say,
‘We’re from the Vineyard and you’ve just been kissed.’ Also, be open to God's leading and offer pray with people as *God space is created.Divide up into teams Load up and head out.
After project head to Caribou Coffee, or Starbucks for download and great java.

 

Steve Bowen